How to Show Your Man Some Love

  I often see women asking the question: How can I show my husband I love him? Typical responses seem to include things like sending him love notes and making his lunch. Some people will suggest getting in shape and dressing well for him (great ways to make him feel good, actually!) but there is far too little information regarding what your husband really needs from you.

What He Needs to Know:

Your husband needs to know that you respect him. I know, I know, the concept might seem foreign to a lot of women. "Respect?" you say. "What's the big deal about respect?" But you see, men and women are, contrary to popular cultural belief... different. Women don't think the same, they don't act the same, and they don't respond the same to similar situations. Women always will be different, no matter how much society wishes to make them similar and equal. So indulge me for just a moment and take a look at what is important to a man.

Men need respect. Respect is vital to a man. For a woman, love is like oxygen. It is a living, breathing need for us. We will fall apart, or complain, or withdraw if we are feeling unloved. Men are the same way, except that their need is for respect and they will often withdraw from us when they don't feel that they are respected.

Additionally, men equate respect with love. They see your respect for them as a sign of your love. When you approach your husband with a proclamation of your love for him, he may be completely unphased. If you try telling him that you respect him, however, you may see a pronounced difference in his reaction.

How to Show Respect to Him

There are several things that you can do that will help your husband to feel respected by you.

Appreciate him:

Your husband will feel both appreciated and respected when you tell him how much it means to you that he supports (or helps to support) your family. His work is something that is very important to him and it means a great deal to a man when his woman respects and appreciates him for everything he does for her and their children!

Admire Him:

So what do you admire about your husband? Let's see... you admire the fact that he is an excellent cook . you admire him for his dedication to continuing education and increasing his knowledge. you admire him for knowing when to say "enough is enough." you admire him for doing the best he could as a single dad for so many years. you admire him for his artistic talent. you admire him for his perseverance in spite of adversity. let him see your soul beauty.you will find different person with you.

Adore Him (in a Human Sense)

This may look different depending on your individual circumstances, but your husband thrives on your adoration. Do you greet him at the door when he arrives home from work? This will show him that you adore him (and therefore that you love him). Do you take the time to give him a shoulder rub after a particularly difficult day? Do you take the time to spend "shoulder to shoulder" time with him (as he would with his guy friends?). Do you suggest activities for your family that you know he enjoys (golfing, fishing, etc)? Do you ever give him his space just so he can relax without worrying?

One Last Thing:

Ladies, like it or not, he cares about how you look. man never think like a women think, they see the situation from different prospect. they care about look, smell, behaviour even care about women walk, this in normal, you can imagine how that will happen if this your husband, he can count your breaths!!

make him always think you are different every hour you sit with him, Good luck